Oh my god, it turns out his ID on Tu Yuan is still stuck on the version before last, no wonder trying @RL989 just now didn’t work 
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The earliest version is lr766
Later used rl989 (hope I didn’t get it wrong)
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Is this correct?
Domestic demo devices now cannot access the developer options
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I can only say it’s very abstract.
The first device I saw when I went in was like this.
It’s also the only demo unit among the random samples that has BL unlocked.
Here in HK, all the demo units I’ve sampled can access them 
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On the verge of extreme panic
How can I persuade my parents to accept the fact that there’s a very high probability I’ll have a one-year gap? 
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First say you need to smash the wall, then open the window ().
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AI Assistance
1. Know Yourself and Know the Enemy, Unbeatable in a Hundred Battles
For parents, “you should go to university if you get admitted” is a clear, definite path, while a “gap year” is full of uncertainty, which makes them anxious. “All the other kids are going to university, why aren’t you?” When most people around choose the same route, parents instinctively see it as the safest, most correct one. Your “going against the grain” challenges their sense of security. In their view, you might lose (be deprived of) the valuable status of a fresh graduate, continuity of study, synchronicity with classmates, and even future career advantages. The fear of “loss” is far stronger than the desire for “gain.” In traditional family thinking, parents play an authoritative role; their past success experiences (“that’s how we did it”) make them firmly believe their judgment is right.
Action Guide: Take a piece of paper and calmly write down every question and concern you anticipate your parents will raise. For example: “What if taking a year off makes you lose interest in school? What will you do then?” “How will you support yourself that year?” “You’ll fall out of sync with your classmates.” “Graduating a year later will put you at a disadvantage in the job market.” For each item, think about the underlying fear.
Build Your Own “GAP YEAR Blueprint”:
Simply saying “I’m stressed and need a break” is far from enough. You need to turn that vague idea into a clear, concrete, persuasive plan.
- Clarify Motivation (Why): Why do you want a gap year? To explore career directions, learn a new skill, join a meaningful volunteer project, or adjust your mental state? You need one or more core goals.
- Create a Detailed Plan (What & How):
- Timeline: Divide the year into several phases; what specific goals and tasks belong to each phase?
- Content: Will you intern (have backup companies lined up?), teach abroad (contacted an organization?), learn a language (enroll in a class or self‑study?), or take a planned trip (what’s the theme? what’s the budget?)?
- Expected Outcomes: After a year, what do you hope to have achieved? An internship certificate, a skill credential, a unique experience, or a more mature, clearer sense of your future direction?
- Financial Budget: List the year’s expenses in detail and the sources of funds (self‑earned through work? partial family support?).
2. Strategic Communication
Once you have the above materials, you can start a well‑prepared “campaign.” Remember, this is not a debate; the goal is “collaboration,” not “victory.”
Give First, Then Ask
- Tip: In the period before formally making the request, proactively “invest” in other areas so parents feel your goodwill and maturity. For example, take on more household chores, show concern for their work and health, or chat casually about family matters. These small gestures create a sense of “owing” you, making them more willing to listen to your ideas.
Step‑by‑Step, Build Momentum
- Tip: Avoid a sudden “attack” like a “family showdown.” Instead, layer your ideas like peeling an onion—gradually and in stages.
- Wind‑up Phase: In everyday conversation, casually mention a friend or celebrity who took a gap year and succeeded, or share an article about the benefits of a GAP YEAR, and watch their reaction.
- Seek Initial Agreement: Present points they can’t refute and win their nod. For example: “It seems many college graduates feel lost after school; if we can figure out what we want before university, we might avoid a lot of detours, right?” When they agree, you’ve secured a small “commitment.”
- Formal Proposal: Once they’re mentally prepared, choose a relaxed setting, present your idea formally, and show the detailed plan you’ve prepared.
Appeal to Benefits, Not Just Logic
- Tip: Show parents that your decision benefits the whole family.
- Economic Argument: “Instead of rushing into a major I don’t like, spending two years and then dropping out or switching majors wastes more time and money. Using this year to explore will ensure the four years of tuition are spent wisely.”
- Growth Argument: “A year of real‑world experience will make me more mature, independent, and confident, helping me adapt to university life and achieve better grades.” Many university reports show that students who take a gap year have higher GPAs and are more active in campus activities.
- Future Argument: “This unique work or social experience will become a shining point on my résumé, turning into an advantage when I job‑hunt later.”
Leverage Authority and Social Proof
- Tip: Your voice alone is thin; bring in “authorities” and “the crowd” to back you up.
- Cite Authorities: Gather official statements or positive comments from top universities (e.g., Harvard) that encourage students to apply for a gap year, as well as admissions officers’ endorsements. Find articles or interviews from education experts and psychologists who support gap years.
- Provide Real Cases: Share stories of seniors you know—ideally ones your parents also recognize—who took a gap year and thrived. Personal examples are far more persuasive than celebrity anecdotes.
Weigh Two Harms, Choose the Lesser
- Tip: Contrast a well‑planned, value‑rich “gap year” with a scenario where, under pressure, you enter university confused, potentially leading to burnout, depression, or even dropping out. This makes your plan appear not a “bad” choice but a “better” preventive measure.
3. On‑the‑Spot Communication—Attitude Determines Everything
- Pick the Right Moment: Choose a time when both parents are relaxed and have ample time, such as a weekend afternoon.
- Manage Emotions: Your anxiety is understandable, but aim to stay calm, rational, and respectful during the talk. The more mature you appear, the more they’ll trust you can manage the year.
- Express Effectively:
- Use “I” statements to convey feelings rather than “you” accusations. (e.g., “I feel lost and anxious and need time to think about my future,” not “You always pressure me and make me stressed.”)
- Clearly state your needs and emotions, and actively listen to their viewpoints.
- Prepare to Compromise: Communication is two‑way; you may need to make concessions, such as agreeing to give them regular progress updates during the gap year, completing some online courses they suggest, or accepting a middle‑ground solution.
Finally, and most importantly:
Understand that persuading your parents may not happen in a single conversation. It could be a process of repeated talks and plan refinements. Your goal is to open a communication channel so they can see your growth and reasoning, not to force an immediate nod.
When you treat this as a project—using clear logic, detailed planning, respectful attitude, and psychological insight—you shift from being a rebellious kid to an adult taking responsibility for your own life. That, in itself, is the most powerful persuasion. Good luck!
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Do you want to apply for a PhD?
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I personally lean towards an MPhil
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Some things happened this morning that gave me more confidence (to persuade my parents).
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I originally thought that if you’re applying for a PhD, you could first do a one-year master’s as a buffer
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I also lean towards an MPhil, but there are no professors in HK recruiting for MPhil 
Given the same slot, the four‑year starter and the two‑year starter would obviously choose the former
Most likely I’ll have to go straight to a PhD
I personally feel that if you’re pursuing a PhD, an MSc isn’t very convincing? (Actually it’s just too expensive and feels like a loss)
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A one-year MSc and then applying for a PhD has a very low probability
Moreover, the “taught MSc” is already dominated by coursework, with basically no research; you have to start preparing a PhD application as soon as the MSc starts, with absolutely no output.
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Humanities and social sciences are still a bit different in this respect
And I’m seriously considering a self‑funded MPhil
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Here’s the situation
My second uncle (not a paternal uncle, lives a bit far) has a child who recently went to do an RA
He is a Sichuan University Materials major, grades on the edge of recommendation exemption, can only go to some remote places for joint training, so he gave up the guaranteed position and then took the graduate exam for Zhejiang University polymer materials… but Zhejiang’s specialized courses are self‑made, he barely made it to the interview and then was rejected
Now he’s working as an RA for a teacher at his home university, Sichuan University[1], and won’t return during the summer
Planning to make a second attempt at his home university at the end of the year and then follow this advisor
Will he win? He will win ()
4000 CNY per month, but no accommodation, just enough to cover ↩︎
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Is this second uncle the s22u one? (
Oh no, that’s my younger uncle-in-law
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[details=“Digital related”]
There are some sources claiming that the iPhone 17 offers a 1440 Hz high‑frequency PWM dimming (long‑life TFT forever). If that’s true, I’ll buy it unconditionally (of course I’ll look for a good price).
At 6499 CNY for 256 GB it would be even better, because during Singles’ Day it will almost certainly drop to 5999 CNY with a national subsidy, and around 5499 CNY in hand.
On top of that I’m planning to switch to the Xiaomi 15 Ultra on Singles’ Day and see if I can catch the last flagship with root‑able imaging capabilities—
| iPhone 17 | Xiaomi 15 Ultra | After dual‑hold | |
|---|---|---|---|
| CPU | a19 beats 8e, always wins | ||
| GPU | a19 5‑GPU | 8e | I can’t say, this part feels like 8e wins () |
| Performance (high‑load gaming as a benchmark) | Apple added some cooling, CPU leads | 8e has better cooling | I might choose Apple |
| Signal | Apple has a very low chance of using its own modem | Is this still in question? | |
| Screen | Display quality, peak brightness, HDR | Eye‑care |
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I choose SAMSUNG S26 ULTRA
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No money
17 standard version with national subsidy 5,500 (if the 128 GB model starts selling it should not increase the price, anyway you can get the subsidy), Mi 15u 16+512 618 then JD self‑operated would be 4,800, Double Eleven expected to start around 3 ~
You have to wait until the 26th, not to mention, the cost‑performance ratio is just a mess.
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Hong Kong version s25u ~6000
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