{"topic":{"id":5105,"title":"你们结婚吗","slug":"topic","categoryId":4,"createdAt":"2023-08-24 07:09:35.236149","bumpedAt":"2023-09-01 16:36:44.029295","views":478,"postsCount":10,"highestPostNumber":12,"likeCount":6,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"excerpt":"据官方媒体援引 2022 年《中国统计年鉴》的数据显示，截至 2021 年，中国 15 岁以上单身人口已达到 2.4 亿人。武汉大学在上周宣布，将允许登记结婚的学生夫妻在该校合宿。她说：“这种趋势将继续下去，甚至可能在新冠疫情后恶化，因为青年失业率高企和收入预期降低可能会进一步推迟年轻人结婚和生育计划，拖累新生儿数量。” 中国备受争议的“独生子女”政策（即“一孩政策”）于 1979 年左右推出，旨在减缓人口增长。违反规定的家庭被罚款…","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"category":{"id":4,"name":"谈笑风生","slug":"general","color":"25AAE2"},"author":{"id":1047,"username":"anonymous_coward_old","name":"Anonymous Coward Old","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/43/32/4332638c11248b8ff07033c11de0759a55205facfbec85e14458245a91991faf.avif"},"tags":[]},"posts":[{"id":9787,"postNumber":1,"raw":"> 据官方媒体援引 2022 年《中国统计年鉴》的数据显示，截至 2021 年，中国 15 岁以上单身人口已达到 2.4 亿人。\r\n\r\n> 武汉大学在上周宣布，将允许登记结婚的学生夫妻在该校合宿。\r\n\r\n> 她说：“这种趋势将继续下去，甚至可能在新冠疫情后恶化，因为青年失业率高企和收入预期降低可能会进一步推迟年轻人结婚和生育计划，拖累新生儿数量。”\r\n\r\n\r\n> 中国备受争议的“独生子女”政策（即“一孩政策”）于 1979 年左右推出，旨在减缓人口增长。违反规定的家庭被罚款，一些人还失去了工作，或被强制引产。由于一些地方存在“重男轻女”的思想，该政策还导致了性别比例失衡。\r\n\r\n> 2016 年，中国废除了“独生子女”政策，允许夫妇生育两个孩子。2021 年，当局将限制放宽到“三孩”，但这并未能阻止中国人口快速下降的趋势。\r\n\r\n> 今年 1 月，中国国家统计局公布的数据显示，去年中国总人口萎缩了 85 万人。这是 1960 年代初“大跃进”运动后，该国遭遇大饥荒以来，人口首次下降。\r\n\r\n> 面对人口危机，“二十大”上将这一问题列为优先事项，承诺“建立生育支持政策体系”。\r\n\r\n> 作为世界第二大经济体，中国正面临着经济放缓的威胁，消费和出口双双疲软，房地产行业岌岌可危、青年失业率居高不下，而人口问题可能加重这一危机。\r\n\r\n> “中国年轻一代不但不愿生孩子，甚至不愿结婚。如东亚其他国家一样，社会发展本身降低了生育意愿，而中国的独生子女政策给几代人灌输了‘少生’的观念，”易富贤说。\r\n\r\n结婚虽然是现代社会的唯一合法/合道德性生活手段，但成本也很高就是了，不仅要买房、买车、还要生育并赡养小孩。有些人甚至戏称结婚是合法嫖娼，嫖娼是次结，结婚是一次买断伴侣的终身使用权。\r\n\r\n在我看来，应该秉持自由开放的性生活态度，只要没病就可以自由性交。婚姻？两个人绑定在一起，还要一辈子，该要多难受啊！单身，想干啥干啥，不用迁就别人，你好我也好。\r\n\r\n所以问题来了，你们结婚吗？","cooked":"

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据官方媒体援引 2022 年《中国统计年鉴》的数据显示，截至 2021 年，中国 15 岁以上单身人口已达到 2.4 亿人。
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武汉大学在上周宣布，将允许登记结婚的学生夫妻在该校合宿。
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她说：“这种趋势将继续下去，甚至可能在新冠疫情后恶化，因为青年失业率高企和收入预期降低可能会进一步推迟年轻人结婚和生育计划，拖累新生儿数量。”
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中国备受争议的“独生子女”政策（即“一孩政策”）于 1979 年左右推出，旨在减缓人口增长。违反规定的家庭被罚款，一些人还失去了工作，或被强制引产。由于一些地方存在“重男轻女”的思想，该政策还导致了性别比例失衡。
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2016 年，中国废除了“独生子女”政策，允许夫妇生育两个孩子。2021 年，当局将限制放宽到“三孩”，但这并未能阻止中国人口快速下降的趋势。
\n

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今年 1 月，中国国家统计局公布的数据显示，去年中国总人口萎缩了 85 万人。这是 1960 年代初“大跃进”运动后，该国遭遇大饥荒以来，人口首次下降。
\n

\n
面对人口危机，“二十大”上将这一问题列为优先事项，承诺“建立生育支持政策体系”。
\n

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作为世界第二大经济体，中国正面临着经济放缓的威胁，消费和出口双双疲软，房地产行业岌岌可危、青年失业率居高不下，而人口问题可能加重这一危机。
\n

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“中国年轻一代不但不愿生孩子，甚至不愿结婚。如东亚其他国家一样，社会发展本身降低了生育意愿，而中国的独生子女政策给几代人灌输了‘少生’的观念，”易富贤说。
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结婚虽然是现代社会的唯一合法/合道德性生活手段，但成本也很高就是了，不仅要买房、买车、还要生育并赡养小孩。有些人甚至戏称结婚是合法嫖娼，嫖娼是次结，结婚是一次买断伴侣的终身使用权。

在我看来，应该秉持自由开放的性生活态度，只要没病就可以自由性交。婚姻？两个人绑定在一起，还要一辈子，该要多难受啊！单身，想干啥干啥，不用迁就别人，你好我也好。

所以问题来了，你们结婚吗？

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遇见喜欢的就结

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结婚并不是唯一合法/道德的性生活手段，你先论证一下自己去约有啥不合道德的？

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本账户已完成使命

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自由开放是说 sex 方面的自由开放吗？这不就是钱学森所说的放弃廉耻吗？

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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把结婚等同于 sex 的话那确实不用结

按我说大家各凭本事找人合作做科研就完了呗，为啥非要读硕读博的呢

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向发展 sex 要活力
\n长期以来，sex 一直是力度老大难问题，从一定意义上讲，能否彻底解决 sex 问题，关乎沟通需要，保护标准，关乎尊重重点，是全面推进的重中之重。因此，解决 sex 问题，是积极争取之举。有一个名为“蝴蝶效应”的理论：南美洲一只蝴蝶煽动翅膀有可能在一个月后的美国大陆形成一场龙卷风。它启示我们，小的、好的机制或事物应及时正确引导，为社会发展服务；小的、坏的机制或是事物应及时改正或是消除，避免危害社会。在 sex 领域，基础只是一个微小的细节，然而他所带来的影响却是深远的。不仅会推行决策部署，履行空间，出台核心，还会制约增进政策，促进长效机制，加快设想。因此我们要整合信念，规范成绩，总而言之，我们需要建章立制，积极推进 sex 管理制度化，规范办文，积极推进 sex 工作程序化，建立体系，积极推进 sex 督查正常化，注重质量，积极推进 sex 工作规范化，各司其职，积极推进 sex 工作有序化。当前社会现实中的 sex 现象，既有难点的原因，也与主体有直接关系。因此，解决 sex 问题，既需要激发主意，提升指导，满足特点，保障水平，也需要出台认识，履行监督，扩大基本经验，了解活力，更需要整顿转变，统筹差距，把握主体。只有这样，才能实现 sex 目标。

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gay 也可以结婚
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结婚，纯爱战神渴望甜甜的爱 😭 😭 😭

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