{"topic":{"id":4942,"title":"二战狗失眠吐槽","slug":"topic","categoryId":4,"createdAt":"2023-08-18 19:04:21.592198","bumpedAt":"2023-09-20 14:54:06.314144","views":719,"postsCount":25,"highestPostNumber":25,"likeCount":7,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"不吐不快碎碎念 + 我的 sb 想法警告大学四年成绩平平，以为自己努力复习考研可以考到其他学校，结果因为复习策略和阳了导致数学考的一塌糊涂在学校里一战的时候，被两个舍友拷打 1.暑假期间只有我和舍友 A 留校，我是每天去教室和图书馆早出晚归，而他一直待在宿舍里。起初，我本以为他也是认真学习，结果他是完全放弃，从早到晚基本都在娱乐休闲玩游戏。尽管他晚上睡的晚，有时打游戏大叫，但我在宿舍的时候还算安静，我还能忍受（虽然不明白他放弃…","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"category":{"id":4,"name":"谈笑风生","slug":"general","color":"25AAE2"},"author":{"id":1135,"username":"anonymous147","name":"anonymous147","avatarUrl":null},"tags":["discussion","inner-monologue"]},"posts":[{"id":9387,"postNumber":1,"raw":"不吐不快\n碎碎念 + 我的 sb 想法警告\n\n大学四年成绩平平，以为自己努力复习考研可以考到其他学校，结果因为复习策略和阳了导致数学考的一塌糊涂\n\n在学校里一战的时候，被两个舍友拷打\n1.暑假期间只有我和舍友 A 留校，我是每天去教室和图书馆早出晚归，而他一直待在宿舍里。起初，我本以为他也是认真学习，结果他是完全放弃，从早到晚基本都在娱乐休闲玩游戏。\n尽管他晚上睡的晚，有时打游戏大叫，但我在宿舍的时候还算安静，我还能忍受\n（虽然不明白他放弃原因，但是我真的好羡慕这种无忧无虑，整天摆烂的生活）\n\n2. 而舍友 B 更是重量级。开学后，在宿舍白天复习，晚上就是他的放松时间\n他和他的同学经常玩 csgo，开黑时间基本在晚上 11 点甚至 12 点后，正好是我洗漱准备睡觉的时间\n我的痛苦日子到来了，他打游戏经常大吵大叫，尽管和他说了两次后有所收敛，但游戏本巨大的风扇声依旧影响了我\n\n\n复习压力，再加上嘈杂的睡眠环境加重了我的失眠，睡觉时间变成由舍友决定\n当时有想过出去住或者换宿舍，但考虑到家庭经济情况和疫情，我选择了忍受。失眠，焦虑，学习状态逐渐下滑。\n年底疫情爆发，考前宿舍有人中招，我难逃一劫。考完试，我甚至想过和父母说自己发烧导致没考好，不过好在他们也没说什么，只是让我接着考\n\n\n> 一个建议，如果舍友影响休息或者学习，尽快选择合适方法解决\n\n- - -\n\n目前二战在家复习\n本以为在家可以好好休息，结果事与愿违\n我爸是个花钱大手大脚，脾气暴躁的人，而我妈是个喜欢啰嗦的人，从我有印象起，他俩经常因为钱的事吵架\n再加上我初二弟弟成绩倒数的情况，在家中经常听到他们三人拌嘴，吵架\n尝试过调解，对话但效果甚微\n\n一战失利以及家人之间的不断争吵让我再次失眠\n晚上睡不着的时候，我想过一个人独居的生活，想过暴揍所有让我不爽的人（阿 Q），也想过紫砂可以让我不再面对一切烦恼\n\n平时休息是越来越不想玩游戏或者看看二次元了，脑子已经是短视频的形状了（悲），需要一个足够长，没有任何事的假期来调整\n\n不过，总得继续努力，不能让这么多年的付出白费，只不过过程很痛苦\n\n- - -\n\n另\n受爸妈影响，我一直对结婚抱有极大的抵触心理，将来不结婚应该是我的选择\n但他们和一些亲戚越来越喜欢提这件事也让我烦恼不以（我爷爷经常调侃我给我介绍对象，早日让他抱孙子）\n我要怎么和他们说，让他们接受这件事，只怕到时候又是一次吵架\n\n压力过大导致的失眠有没有调整的办法，去年考前吃过一段时间的褪黑素，效果一般（烦）\n不知道是不是有失眠的影响，回家后我也有点易怒了，一件小事都可能会和父母吵几句","cooked":"

不吐不快
\n碎碎念 + 我的 sb 想法警告

大学四年成绩平平，以为自己努力复习考研可以考到其他学校，结果因为复习策略和阳了导致数学考的一塌糊涂

在学校里一战的时候，被两个舍友拷打
\n1.暑假期间只有我和舍友 A 留校，我是每天去教室和图书馆早出晚归，而他一直待在宿舍里。起初，我本以为他也是认真学习，结果他是完全放弃，从早到晚基本都在娱乐休闲玩游戏。
\n尽管他晚上睡的晚，有时打游戏大叫，但我在宿舍的时候还算安静，我还能忍受
\n（虽然不明白他放弃原因，但是我真的好羡慕这种无忧无虑，整天摆烂的生活）

而舍友 B 更是重量级。开学后，在宿舍白天复习，晚上就是他的放松时间
\n他和他的同学经常玩 csgo，开黑时间基本在晚上 11 点甚至 12 点后，正好是我洗漱准备睡觉的时间
\n我的痛苦日子到来了，他打游戏经常大吵大叫，尽管和他说了两次后有所收敛，但游戏本巨大的风扇声依旧影响了我

复习压力，再加上嘈杂的睡眠环境加重了我的失眠，睡觉时间变成由舍友决定
\n当时有想过出去住或者换宿舍，但考虑到家庭经济情况和疫情，我选择了忍受。失眠，焦虑，学习状态逐渐下滑。
\n年底疫情爆发，考前宿舍有人中招，我难逃一劫。考完试，我甚至想过和父母说自己发烧导致没考好，不过好在他们也没说什么，只是让我接着考

\n
一个建议，如果舍友影响休息或者学习，尽快选择合适方法解决
\n

目前二战在家复习
\n本以为在家可以好好休息，结果事与愿违
\n我爸是个花钱大手大脚，脾气暴躁的人，而我妈是个喜欢啰嗦的人，从我有印象起，他俩经常因为钱的事吵架
\n再加上我初二弟弟成绩倒数的情况，在家中经常听到他们三人拌嘴，吵架
\n尝试过调解，对话但效果甚微

一战失利以及家人之间的不断争吵让我再次失眠
\n晚上睡不着的时候，我想过一个人独居的生活，想过暴揍所有让我不爽的人（阿 Q），也想过紫砂可以让我不再面对一切烦恼

平时休息是越来越不想玩游戏或者看看二次元了，脑子已经是短视频的形状了（悲），需要一个足够长，没有任何事的假期来调整

不过，总得继续努力，不能让这么多年的付出白费，只不过过程很痛苦

另
\n受爸妈影响，我一直对结婚抱有极大的抵触心理，将来不结婚应该是我的选择
\n但他们和一些亲戚越来越喜欢提这件事也让我烦恼不以（我爷爷经常调侃我给我介绍对象，早日让他抱孙子）
\n我要怎么和他们说，让他们接受这件事，只怕到时候又是一次吵架

压力过大导致的失眠有没有调整的办法，去年考前吃过一段时间的褪黑素，效果一般（烦）
\n不知道是不是有失眠的影响，回家后我也有点易怒了，一件小事都可能会和父母吵几句

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所有存在家庭矛盾的同学，首先应该做到经济独立，一战失利直接随便找个工作顶一顶，手里有钱你根本不用鸟他们，现在失去了应届生身份，在家天天受气压力还大，读了研还得问他们要钱，对学习生活都有很大影响。

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居然这么快就人回，在找工作方面确实是我的准备和调查不足，当时考完彻底摆烂了一段时间

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研究生随便去打点零工早日经济独立，没有家庭矛盾的人很难理解这种问题。他们只会让你”相互包容“。就好像对要自杀的人说”想想你的家人吧“，但凡人有个爱你的亲人也不会自杀了

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人类是群居动物，89% 的 failure 都是因为没有得到正常的、及时的爱。

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加油，再坚持四个多月

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想当初
\n别报你交

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三言两语没有信息量，把话讲清楚：想当初怎样？为什么别报？

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？他不是没报。话说这到底是实名还是匿名。

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我也赞同二楼的看法。直接找工经济独立，可以很大改善目前的环境。想以一人之力扭转家庭数十年矛盾，恐怕不是马上能做到的。
\n另外好奇二战人怎么做到一直为考试目标虚空学习一个月以上，是我的话肯定疯掉直接放弃了。
\n当然我也没有你经验丰富，只能是从我自己角度来看。

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那应该是

\n
没报你交
\n

才对。

anonymous_user 分散在各地。

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好神秘，仿佛是影子政府偷偷给农户放的施肥无人机。随机投射负能量

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每周有固定时间锻炼和休息

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话说可以把这条删了吗？感觉自己真是逆天

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没事的吧，匿名，反正谁也不知道谁是谁。我觉得这种讨论挺有意义的。

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别期望太高，生活是件平常事。
\n人生很难，记得爱自己。
\nPS:很多时候，做一件事最难的部分是那颗总想放弃的心。

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出去租六个月，如果合租假设每个月 1200 元也就 7000 元，相当于$1000 -> 美国量化厂一天实习工资。唉唉

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你得首先明白一个道理，就是有些烦心事是可以逃的，关键看你想不想逃，有没有办法逃。其实细究人生他能有多长时间，毫无疑问，每每对造成烦心的因素姑息一次、忍受一次，都会对生活质量产生极大的影响。所以，能逃则逃，换个新环境是几乎唯一的选择

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早死早超生

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舍友和父母在某种程度上都不是你能扭转的，逐步放弃自己能改变他人的想法，本性大多都是很难改变的。与其还抱着能够改变他人，实现大家都好的这种幻想，还不如想办法规避。没有谁是必须得一直跟某个人或者某群人一直消耗的。如果有时候不能追求到什么，我觉得不如放弃点什么。就你的情况来说，如果你觉得家里不适合复习，那我认为，你是得考虑找一个适合的场所了。从长计议，这可能是一个好的选择。其实某种程度上来说，你所处的环境可能已经很恶劣了，这时候我觉得趋利避害就是自然的道理，没什么大不了的。对于人来说，快快乐乐的，然后再不断的有一点好的收获本来就应该是天经地义的。我们应该有自由选择的勇气

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