{"topic":{"id":1795,"title":"大学不断负反馈怎么办？","slug":"topic","userId":640,"categoryId":14,"createdAt":"2023-07-09 17:44:38.267077","bumpedAt":"2023-09-09 08:37:49.6778","views":1108,"postsCount":12,"highestPostNumber":12,"likeCount":20,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"感觉自己适应不了。。。大一高数一开始没懂，期中只考了 60，后来觉得这样不好，把书看了好多遍突然恍然大悟，期末上了 80，班里前几，错的都是同一个题型，但综评还是只有 76。大二有一门课自己很喜欢，自己推导了公式，还给同学讲，结果考试出了一堆原题均分 88，粗心错了几道就没上均分。室友考前只背了作业轻松 90+，有一门课听不懂，作业不会做也不知道可以问谁，后来才知道可以上 B 站看，但是已经出分了。有一门课本来挺喜欢的，期中也考得好，有…","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"isPrivate":false,"isMembersOnly":false,"category":{"id":14,"name":"问答","slug":"qa","color":"f5c211"},"author":{"id":640,"username":"anonymous24","name":"anonymous24","avatarUrl":null},"realAuthor":{"id":640,"username":"anonymous24","name":"anonymous24","avatarUrl":null},"tags":[]},"posts":[{"id":4339,"postNumber":1,"raw":"感觉自己适应不了。。。大一高数一开始没懂，期中只考了 60，后来觉得这样不好，把书看了好多遍突然恍然大悟，期末上了 80，班里前几，错的都是同一个题型，但综评还是只有 76。大二有一门课自己很喜欢，自己推导了公式，还给同学讲，结果考试出了一堆原题均分 88，粗心错了几道就没上均分。室友考前只背了作业轻松 90+，有一门课听不懂，作业不会做也不知道可以问谁，后来才知道可以上 B 站看，但是已经出分了。有一门课本来挺喜欢的，期中也考得好，有一次早八睡过了，后来再也听不懂了，看了好几遍书还是不懂，期末炸了。还有慕课都是自己做的，拉了好多分，后来才知道直接用脚本轻松满分。我真的觉得自己是个废物，也不太知道努力学习的意义是啥了，算了下学分，后面的课再努力也保不了研，就感觉没有试错机会，前面错了后面也捞不回来了。","cooked":"

感觉自己适应不了。。。大一高数一开始没懂，期中只考了 60，后来觉得这样不好，把书看了好多遍突然恍然大悟，期末上了 80，班里前几，错的都是同一个题型，但综评还是只有 76。大二有一门课自己很喜欢，自己推导了公式，还给同学讲，结果考试出了一堆原题均分 88，粗心错了几道就没上均分。室友考前只背了作业轻松 90+，有一门课听不懂，作业不会做也不知道可以问谁，后来才知道可以上 B 站看，但是已经出分了。有一门课本来挺喜欢的，期中也考得好，有一次早八睡过了，后来再也听不懂了，看了好几遍书还是不懂，期末炸了。还有慕课都是自己做的，拉了好多分，后来才知道直接用脚本轻松满分。我真的觉得自己是个废物，也不太知道努力学习的意义是啥了，算了下学分，后面的课再努力也保不了研，就感觉没有试错机会，前面错了后面也捞不回来了。

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还有闭卷的 zz 课也是，我真的不擅长背书，选理工科除了高中数学物理好就是不想背书，背了一礼拜还没同学背了一个通宵考得好。

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学习方面不清楚，但是我在想如果都想好不保研了，那干脆就用剩下的时间做一些自己想做的事情，学点自己想学的知识吧（不要再在意成绩之类了，不过是诸多评判标准的其中之一）（当然也不是指一定要选一些评判标准去嗯卷，最理想的情况应该是不要去设置别人也不要被别人设置）（唉但是太理想了，不过既然卷分已经没有意义并且让你痛苦了，何不重新着眼于自己）

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以下仅仅为个人看法

首先大学毕业后怎么办，一般可以笼统的分为学术道路和就业道路

学术道路的主体目标是开心 + 提升水平，一般手段是读博后任教，就业道路的主体目标是钱 + 高质量生活，一般手段是社交 + 拟合岗位需求

1.理工科走学术道路，一个基本能力是顺利自学本科课程（指至少拿个期末 85+ 的水平）。楼主目前看来是没有这个能力的。不过考虑到很多偏远地区或者高中视野不够的同学，现在没这个能力并不一定是自身限制，也可能是由于基础还没补上造成的。考虑到楼主才大一，可以再观察 1 到 1.5 年，如果一年后发现自己还是这个状态那确实不适合走学术了，可以直接走第二条就业道路。另外，楼主究竟什么课学不会，建议具体说出课名，网友可能会给于更合适的帮助，或者告诉楼主“这门课学不会很正常”这样的特殊情形。

2.事实上，如果你走就业道路，保不保研压根不重要，社交能力 + 人脉网络 + 努力去拟合岗位需求的程度要重要得多。到了社会上没有人关心你啥成绩。。有的同学可能要说“我读个研再工作更吃香啊”。要注意，读个研再工作统计意义上更吃香只是因为“大部分人到了读研才意识到需要提升自己的社交能力 + 人脉网络 + 拟合岗位需求”，并不是硕士学位本身的功效

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既然负反馈的来源是成绩，lz 可以花几天认真思考一下成绩的意义。
\n如果发现成绩其实不是很重要，可以尝试做别的事情，说不定能得到正反馈。
\n如果发现成绩确实很重要，可以选择与自己和解，认清自己是中人之资，没有理由想做啥就一定能做到前几名，别人又不是吃干饭的。
\n当然很多人是有傲气的，不愿意和解，那就非常痛苦了。

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偏远地区的做题家罢了，除了学习别的玩的也不行，喜欢某种球类运动，在场上就是拖队友后腿，喜欢英语，自己也菜。想学编程，对着 cpppp 撸半天感觉题能做但是摸不着头脑，感觉就是干啥啥不行的纯 five

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大学为数不多是我自己想做的就是模电实验和数电实验最后的数字时钟，可以完全不考虑成绩就是自己喜欢，当然最后结果也比其他实验还是考试好看很多，后来的课程再也没有那个心气去做了

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什么脚本

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手动的...小猿搜题？😳
\n手操当然也属于一种脚本 (雾

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-10 15:19:21.153325","updatedAt":"2023-07-10 15:19:21.153325","replyToPostNumber":8,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":0,"wordCount":22,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"foldedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"isOwner":false,"user":{"id":259,"username":"ReturnDream","name":"保密","avatarUrl":null,"admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":7609,"postNumber":10,"raw":"油猴的，B 站也有教程，直接刷满分的","cooked":"

油猴的，B 站也有教程，直接刷满分的

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突然觉得在说自己，一直都比别人差，期末考试基本在 80-85 之间，甚至研究生课程都没有 90+ 的课

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其实我觉得这也是现在学生的一种悲哀？被功利主义给裹挟了。在想着如何与功利主义松绑的同时，也多听听自己内心的声音吧。

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