{"topic":{"id":15590,"title":"给本科四年的致谢和困惑","slug":"topic","userId":1628,"categoryId":4,"createdAt":"2026-06-08 16:18:02.827264","bumpedAt":"2026-06-11 12:30:16.192565","views":856,"postsCount":12,"highestPostNumber":12,"likeCount":56,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"我的毕业论文的致谢是抄的模板的，但我发现很多人都会在上面写上一些整活的话语来告慰这白驹过隙般的四年，我今晚也很有感想，所以决定在这里写一写，弥补遗憾。","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"isPrivate":false,"isMembersOnly":false,"category":{"id":4,"name":"谈笑风生","slug":"general","color":"25AAE2"},"author":{"id":1628,"username":"Lorange","name":"主治医师李大华","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/f8/ec/f8ecbeb887c4a1311f4f0bf05928476c7b3f632d15bb2b24e782baf2ba6f0d71.avif"},"realAuthor":{"id":1628,"username":"Lorange","name":"主治医师李大华","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/f8/ec/f8ecbeb887c4a1311f4f0bf05928476c7b3f632d15bb2b24e782baf2ba6f0d71.avif"},"tags":[]},"posts":[{"id":72252,"postNumber":1,"raw":"我的毕业论文的致谢是抄的模板的，但我发现很多人都会在上面写上一些整活的话语来告慰这白驹过隙般的四年，我今晚也很有感想，所以决定在这里写一写，弥补遗憾。","cooked":"

我的毕业论文的致谢是抄的模板的，但我发现很多人都会在上面写上一些整活的话语来告慰这白驹过隙般的四年，我今晚也很有感想，所以决定在这里写一写，弥补遗憾。

\n","createdAt":"2026-06-08 16:18:03.311371","updatedAt":"2026-06-08 16:18:03.311371","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":9,"wordCount":75,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"face_holding_back_tears_hugging_face","count":1,"users":[{"id":30,"username":"一只玉米人","name":"玉米🌽"}],"hasReacted":false},{"reaction":"❤️","count":9,"users":[{"id":30,"username":"一只玉米人","name":"玉米🌽"},{"id":346,"username":"hoist","name":null},{"id":466,"username":"Ti","name":"Ti"},{"id":2902,"username":"1313","name":"ᐕ)ﾉ"},{"id":5351,"username":"Xrystal-line","name":"羽流弦ノ迹"},{"id":5940,"username":"water","name":null},{"id":7364,"username":"青年杰出贡献上交大門人","name":"紫金港第一皮革<・)))><<"},{"id":7830,"username":"stateless_trash_can","name":"无状态垃圾桶"},{"id":8040,"username":"dvm","name":"Dvm"}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":1628,"username":"Lorange","name":"主治医师李大华","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/f8/ec/f8ecbeb887c4a1311f4f0bf05928476c7b3f632d15bb2b24e782baf2ba6f0d71.avif","admin":false,"moderator":true,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":72253,"postNumber":2,"raw":"首先在此声明，我并非西交人士，只是一个普通双非计算机er。一些经历也许对在座的各位比较少见，无需惊讶，诸如此类，不再赘述。","cooked":"

首先在此声明，我并非西交人士，只是一个普通双非计算机er。一些经历也许对在座的各位比较少见，无需惊讶，诸如此类，不再赘述。

\n","createdAt":"2026-06-08 16:21:01.710434","updatedAt":"2026-06-08 16:39:31.579786","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":5,"wordCount":59,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"face_holding_back_tears_hugging_face","count":1,"users":[{"id":30,"username":"一只玉米人","name":"玉米🌽"}],"hasReacted":false},{"reaction":"🥺️","count":1,"users":[{"id":7981,"username":"TwlnfuSprig","name":null}],"hasReacted":false},{"reaction":"❤️","count":5,"users":[{"id":30,"username":"一只玉米人","name":"玉米🌽"},{"id":5940,"username":"water","name":null},{"id":7830,"username":"stateless_trash_can","name":"无状态垃圾桶"},{"id":7981,"username":"TwlnfuSprig","name":null},{"id":8040,"username":"dvm","name":"Dvm"}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":2,"publicVersion":2,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":1628,"username":"Lorange","name":"主治医师李大华","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/f8/ec/f8ecbeb887c4a1311f4f0bf05928476c7b3f632d15bb2b24e782baf2ba6f0d71.avif","admin":false,"moderator":true,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":72254,"postNumber":3,"raw":"今晚最想致谢的是过去的自己，也是我写下这篇文章的原因。\n\n我打游戏经常追求完美结局，比如全员存活，全员GE。大学入学后很长一段时间，我都为自己没有在高考上再来一年感到自责和焦虑。\n时间是款良好的止痛药，最终我还是去追逐工作、学习这些更加重要的事情。但很快我就发现，我没有优秀同龄人身上对技术的狂热和天赋。\n\n也许有那么一个方向能够让我也得到这份狂热和天赋，前端？infra？cuda？但可惜最后都浅尝辄止，虽然花费了不少时间，但都没有做到有所成就。只好将失败归功于学习方法论、兴趣、努力、天赋等诸多问题了。\n\n秋招我没有投太多，那段时间我试图提升一下技术all in春招，事实证明这是个败笔——秋招的机会要比春招更加多得多。\n在花费大量时间但水平没有提升太多的情况下，春招我只拿到了上海某数据库底边小厂的一个12k的offer，对这个结果我很不满意。\n\n最近一直在纠结要不要用剩下的半年all in 22408，目标是计算所或者211，没准还能趁机追一追ai infra的风口，拿到一个大包。但gap在这片土地上是不被允许的，要是没考上的话，岂不是糟糕？因此一直陷入两难的抉择，总是恍惚觉得，我依然没有走出22年高考数学的那个风雨交加的下午——以及之后那个痛苦的暑假。\n\n既然我一直在让过去的自己失望，那过去的自己会怎么看待我呢？一定会觉得我很糟糕吧？当初许下的那些愿望，四年过去一个都没有实现。","cooked":"

今晚最想致谢的是过去的自己，也是我写下这篇文章的原因。

我打游戏经常追求完美结局，比如全员存活，全员GE。大学入学后很长一段时间，我都为自己没有在高考上再来一年感到自责和焦虑。
\n时间是款良好的止痛药，最终我还是去追逐工作、学习这些更加重要的事情。但很快我就发现，我没有优秀同龄人身上对技术的狂热和天赋。

也许有那么一个方向能够让我也得到这份狂热和天赋，前端？infra？cuda？但可惜最后都浅尝辄止，虽然花费了不少时间，但都没有做到有所成就。只好将失败归功于学习方法论、兴趣、努力、天赋等诸多问题了。

秋招我没有投太多，那段时间我试图提升一下技术all in春招，事实证明这是个败笔——秋招的机会要比春招更加多得多。
\n在花费大量时间但水平没有提升太多的情况下，春招我只拿到了上海某数据库底边小厂的一个12k的offer，对这个结果我很不满意。

最近一直在纠结要不要用剩下的半年all in 22408，目标是计算所或者211，没准还能趁机追一追ai infra的风口，拿到一个大包。但gap在这片土地上是不被允许的，要是没考上的话，岂不是糟糕？因此一直陷入两难的抉择，总是恍惚觉得，我依然没有走出22年高考数学的那个风雨交加的下午——以及之后那个痛苦的暑假。

既然我一直在让过去的自己失望，那过去的自己会怎么看待我呢？一定会觉得我很糟糕吧？当初许下的那些愿望，四年过去一个都没有实现。

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怎样才能回到过去——除了时光机以外。

想起来大一时候组织的活动：写一封信留给毕业的自己。我一直不敢打开，生怕里面写的是诸如搞技术、进大厂、拿大包一类的话语——我一定让过去的自己失望了吧。

但抑制不住好奇，终于是打开了。
\n一种难以形容的感觉，原来过去的我早就原谅了自己。
\n不知道该说什么，但小珍珠已经下来了。
\n幸好旁边就是我的毛巾，不用让舍友听到我的哭声。
\n $\"image\"$

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本来想趁着情绪还在多写一些东西，但困意已经上来了。

要致谢的还有很多：
\n在本科时候偶尔和我聊天的刘军老师，今天就我是否要考研的困惑和我聊了一个下午。
\n我的舍友，感谢他们没有在意我每一个熬夜看代码的每一个夜晚。
\n隔壁宿舍的朋友，我偶尔会去和他们吹吹比。
\n隔壁班的好朋友，虽然我们两个人像两条区一样。

$\"image\"$
\n $\"image\"$

我的父母，虽然他们的意见真的不怎么有用，但是大学四年的生活费几乎都是他们出的。
\n以及交大门，我在这里写了很多没什么用，但也许以后看到会很怀念的日记。

很遗憾这些当时都没有写入我的本科论文，虽然我的本科毕业论文也是一坨 💩。

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关于我的困惑：

现在是 Jun 9, 2026, 1:49:00 AM (Asia/Shanghai)

我必须在今天的17点前告知hr我是否接下这个offer。

接下的话，我将会有一段不知长短的时间身处上海的某个底边小厂做gpu数据库。我的代码能力并不能支撑我立刻工作，对这份工作的业务和待遇我也并不满意，只是我没得选择。
\n不接的话，我将把今年剩余的六个月用在22408上，期望自己能够考上计算所或者某所211，我不清楚自己能否考上，以及那里是否会有我想象中的成功人生，光是想到名落孙山后全社会对于gap的恶意就足以让人浑身发冷。

我真的很困惑，希望门友们可以集思广益。

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也许从某个时间节点开始，就注定了在这个游戏里我没法获得一个GOOD END。

我的确不够努力，学习的方法也全是错的，但也真的就差一点运气。唯一一个非常想去且技术面通过的公司，最终倒在了hr面，之后的春招就再没有其他声响。

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我觉得当务之急还是看清自己的内心。
\n读研、工作、出国，还是干些其他什么事情？
\n自己到底喜欢什么？
\n我猜你现在肯定是不知道自己想要干什么，并且也不知道从哪开始尝试的状态。另外，你还有个很要命的的特质——钝感十足。简单来说就是哪怕你在尝试中，也没办法判断自己对当前道路到底喜欢与否。
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it's me.

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我觉得还是先打工吧。Take whatever you have.

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我目前是先口头答应，拖着三方不签，先给自己一段时间，看看考研学习的状态如何再做决定。

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毕业快乐

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令人感慨，我自己也要准备就业了。本科致谢写的近乎‘博爱’，现在感觉已经失去了那种胸襟。
\n我知道有人港硕毕业后华为-百度实习，第二年春招才进某AI公司，似乎也并非完全不行。（太细节的我不晓得）
\n如果是我这种保守人士是会接，但上海12k确实有点拮据了，在杭州或许还过的下去。

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