{"topic":{"id":14823,"title":"待人友善","slug":"topic","categoryId":4,"createdAt":"2025-06-26 18:18:08.788074","bumpedAt":"2025-06-28 09:30:53.492795","views":324,"postsCount":42,"highestPostNumber":42,"likeCount":16,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"为什么被别人坑了之后我依然认为要保留“对人友善”的习惯？","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"category":{"id":4,"name":"谈笑风生","slug":"general","color":"25AAE2"},"author":{"id":4668,"username":"IO","name":null,"avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/86/f2/86f267c0aaa73835a999b7cc3a7e7a701605574eda9a2c2a56f5ddbbba64d1a9.avif"},"tags":[]},"posts":[{"id":58370,"postNumber":1,"raw":"为什么被别人坑了之后我依然认为要保留“对人友善”的习惯？","cooked":"

为什么被别人坑了之后我依然认为要保留“对人友善”的习惯？

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对人友善的实质是一种信号--我愿意长期合作
\n正常人都是友善的，所以一直保留这个习惯照做就可以了，不需要去进一步思考

然而，社会角色是很容易变化的，羊群中突变出一只狼（自称为精致的利己主义者，实质是时间偏好极短的粗糙的利己主义者），便可以利用友善群体的信任漏洞完成收割，获得巨额价值（无论是金钱情感还是信任）

所以不仅要对人友善，还要观察其直觉反应，正常人是会认为有所亏欠，会进行立即回馈或长期的感激，狼的天性会认为你好欺负，所以会不自觉地发出嘲笑。

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以前我没得选，现在我只想做个好人

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对待所有人都应该友善，然后根据长期的观察识别出隐藏的狼，逐渐减少与其交流的可能性

不要试图攻击狼，因为自己也会变得嗜血和疯狂

只要不理会并警惕就可以了，狼的生存空间会越来越小

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这是一种很常见的借口

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《无间道》里这句话很好的反映了狼的心态
\n以前做狼赚钱便做狼，借口“我没得选”
\n现在做羊赚钱便做羊，想上岸洗白了

思维本质还是只看当下的利益，时间偏好极短，并没有考虑到翻车的风险溢价。所以说是一种自称的精致利己，事实上的粗糙利己。

真正的精致利己是严守道德，而不是短期的表演

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真的是粗糙利己吗，害群之马的结局一般是献祭自己。损人损己。

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“爱”这一词在不同时期的文学作品中强调的涵义是完全相反的

在圣经这么古老的作品中，爱指的是更加恒久的品质，需要靠的是理智和刻苦努力支撑

在商品文学中，爱指的是动物本能的激情，需要靠的是即刻的欲望

可以看出，这俩者强调的时间偏好是很不一样的，因此圣徒致死也应保留处子之身，作为精灵不应该追求生物学意义的后代。

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狼的一大特点是操弄笔墨和搬弄是非，将羊进行隔离，使用中间人攻击的方法进行语言腐败

解释权之争是做能体现其专业性的战场

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今天的门友也很哲学

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正常人是会认为有所亏欠，会进行立即回馈或长期的感激，狼的天性会认为你好欺负，所以会不自觉地发出嘲笑。
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所以说【舔狗，骗子】是天造地设的一对，因为他们的内心深处都认为人和人是不平等的，某一方更高贵，龟男最爱的是渣女，龟女最爱的是渣男。

这种 master-slave 的爱情观源自一种对世俗权威的不充分拒绝。急于告白等待对方审判的思维方式和偷懒的 social proof 是一致的，“你比我更高贵，所以你有权判断对错，我将此权利让渡与你”

slave 的幸福源于童年的幸福回忆，所以若渣男渣女通过欺骗接受一段关系，龟男龟女就会表现出童样痴呆（像小孩子小动物一样蹦蹦跳跳）

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当代大学生宣称自己追求爱情时，追求的是舍弃自由的幸福：

让渡自己判断对错的自由权利，也是一种甩锅责任的巨婴行为。

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只有成年人能提供给小孩子幸福

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幸福和依赖总是相伴相随的--这是小孩子的幻想和美梦

自由和爱（古典意义，实为理性）是相伴相随的

陷入幸福的人为何最终被伤的很深？因为彻底放弃了理性，失去合作的理性价值，成为嗷嗷待哺的巨婴，自己不可控的依赖被撕破时是极其痛苦的，而人最擅长欺骗自己（我的父母还是爱我的，我的伴侣还是爱我的）不愿意接受事实

事实上，大多数普通人的父母可以在几百万的利益选择下卖掉自己的孩子。

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门友要是理解这些就不会只限于眼馋女同学了

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信仰理性的精灵在此将世俗幸福的秘密解开

门友若想脱单，应当参照以下原则

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女性的欲望和男性的欲望并不会差太多
女性天生的不安全感会使其本能进行废物测试
女权的本质是一场大号的废物测试
这意味着，有些文字你应该反向理解
这意味着，真实世界的女性喜欢“普通且自信”的男生
这意味着，真实世界的女性喜欢比自己更富有经验的男性主导去做很多事情
这意味着，真实世界的女性厌恶平白无故给自己花钱的男生，这样的行为会被理解为性贿赂，会增大不安全感
这意味着，真实世界的女性表面上是极左，实际上是极右
这意味着，一个年轻庸俗的女性希望获得的是高质量的恋爱体验，而非理性的远期承诺。而这样的体验是需要你利用自己的理性和更加完备的经验（一般大学伴侣中男性年龄会大 1-3 岁）去进行设计，实际上是一种不能偷懒的付出（所以校园富二代其实也很难让一个女生真正狂热）
这意味着，谈恋爱真不如打游戏（毕竟有能力抑制自己性欲的人才能更好发挥自己的理性去创造高质量的恋爱体验）。

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这些秘密在所有的宗教文本中都有记载

更现代和文雅的书籍可以参考《小王子》

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《头号玩家》第一关的迷题便是这一点

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上面的所有性别指的都是生物学本能，而非后天教育造就的认知。人大多数时间还是被本能主导的。

fMRI 的实验结果也很好说明了说谎实际上是需要高级功能语言的

恋爱中的语言很多时候都是谎言，你应该更多关注表情神态和动作，为其赋予更高权重的可信度

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当然本文的主线不是门友和女同学

现在应该回到其他地方

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