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事情起源于楼主和朋友的一次聊天，这位朋友最近谈恋爱了，是同校的学生，一米八的大个，想必也十分帅气

晚上她吃橘子的时候和我说到了高中的事情，高中她前面坐着一位男同学（是我的好哥们，喜欢她三年），给她剥橘子，搬桌子，作为一个旁观者我可以说是肉眼可见的对她好

当时他们两个之间是有些暧昧的，或者说两个人都有比较明显的好感，但是由于很多原因，些许是男孩子的不自信或者是女孩子的不是那么喜欢（她说她想找大个的），两个人直到高中毕业都没有明确的确定关系

高考之后，两个人天各一方

今天晚上那个女孩子对我说：

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但可能长大了吧想法也不一样了我感觉我要是现在遇到的他我感觉我应该是会跟他有点啥的即便他确实有些地方我不喜欢我或许会让他改啥的
\n感觉要是现在可能真跟他谈了
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或许要是他俩现在在一个地方，或者是同一所大学读书，会不会就在一起了呢？

其实我感觉答案是否定的，挺令人感慨的

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有时候我经常会思考，是不是我的恋爱观太守旧了

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ぜーんぶ弾けなーい！

和小说一样模模糊糊的结尾，勾起读者的无限怀念与遐想。

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好青春的文字，可惜我没有谈过恋爱
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过去的美好就留在过去，以便时时怀念

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\n\t\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t可樂不是真樂，post:5, topic:13850, username:Aicnal:\n\t\t\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t

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其实我也说不上喜欢到底是什么感觉
\n就天天想和她在一起，想听她说话
\n哪怕就算不说话，单独两个人在街上走，坐着吹吹风，也很舒服
\n
我会感觉世界上好像她就是那个最完美的女孩子，我也不会去想我会不会以后遇到更好的了
\n

\n\t\t\t\t

写下这段文字的时候，我的心是发颤的
\n有时候怀念的不是某个特定的人，而是一种感受

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