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认识一个女生三个月了，有时候会关心她，但是又怕打扰，很纠结，不知道是聊天上头还是什么情况，想冷静一周，但是发现闲的时候还是会想起她，好纠结啊

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想想自己是不是除了她就不会想其他女孩子了 😭

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ぜーんぶ弾けなーい！

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没有了 😭

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家人应该不算

其实我也说不上喜欢到底是什么感觉
\n就天天想和她在一起，想听她说话
\n哪怕就算不说话，单独两个人在街上走，坐着吹吹风，也很舒服

我会感觉世界上好像她就是那个最完美的女孩子，我也不会去想我会不会以后遇到更好的了

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ぜーんぶ弾けなーい！

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是的确实想天天和她在一起，想听她说话，但是又觉得太打扰她了

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本 🐁也没啥恋爱经历，不能给 OP 一些很好的建议，不过我觉得多和人家女生聊聊还是好的，就算最后哪怕确定不是所谓的喜欢，只是朋友之间的欣赏也是很好的

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ぜーんぶ弾けなーい！

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好的，谢谢你

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让理性占上风

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会脸红心跳吗？

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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会 🥲

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那就是了😁

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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谢谢 🥰

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\n\t\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t神秘帅大叔，post:10, topic:13850, full:true, username:但我不抽烟:\n\t\t\t\t\t\t

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会脸红心跳吗？
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\n\t\t\t\t

怎么有一种青春校园偶像剧的感觉，还有那种心悸的感 jio
\n😭 😭 😭

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ぜーんぶ弾けなーい！

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青春真好啊🥲

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收到🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡

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学习新思想，争做新青年，国家尚未富强，怎谈儿女情长
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第一位喜欢的女生推荐给我的动画。和她表白被拒了，但仍然很幸福。我们都很珍惜这段经历。

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感谢这周考完试我去看

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