{"topic":{"id":13770,"title":"替即将参加高考的表弟问一个问题","slug":"topic","userId":4668,"categoryId":4,"createdAt":"2024-10-28 11:04:49.114645","bumpedAt":"2024-11-02 05:33:40.241304","views":300,"postsCount":9,"highestPostNumber":9,"likeCount":4,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"我有一个表弟，我舅舅的孩子。我俩从小就是我外公外婆带大的，我外公外婆也就只有我舅和我妈两个孩子我和我表弟都是独生子女，我弟上学前班的时候就去广州了，我舅舅家条件挺好的，广州有三套房子吧，基本上都在海珠这种市区我在小县城长大，我比我表弟大两岁半然后明年六月份他高考，虽然说他现在在省重点，但是据我舅说我弟那个学校本科升学率只有一半。。。然后我弟他平时也不怎么读书，有在广州生活的门友肯定知道，广州的“小牛”，电摩比较出名，中大珠海校区门…","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"isPrivate":false,"isMembersOnly":false,"category":{"id":4,"name":"谈笑风生","slug":"general","color":"25AAE2"},"author":{"id":4668,"username":"IO","name":null,"avatarUrl":null},"realAuthor":{"id":4668,"username":"IO","name":null,"avatarUrl":null},"tags":[]},"posts":[{"id":42179,"postNumber":1,"raw":"我有一个表弟，我舅舅的孩子。我俩从小就是我外公外婆带大的，我外公外婆也就只有我舅和我妈两个孩子\n\n我和我表弟都是独生子女，我弟上学前班的时候就去广州了，我舅舅家条件挺好的，广州有三套房子吧，基本上都在海珠这种市区\n\n我在小县城长大，我比我表弟大两岁半\n\n然后明年六月份他高考，虽然说他现在在省重点，但是据我舅说我弟那个学校本科升学率只有一半。。。然后我弟他平时也不怎么读书，有在广州生活的门友肯定知道，广州的“小牛”，电摩比较出名，中大珠海校区门口、广州塔下面经常有翘头飙车的\n\n我弟也喜欢整那个，尤其是他还改车，据说他那个小电动车可以破百。。。改那个车可能前前后后花了有 1.5 个 w\n\n钱大概是从我舅妈那里找来的，舅妈比较疼他，但是他偏偏喜欢惹她生气，他也不读书，天天拿个红魔去学校，就吃鸡，暗区突围天天玩，还氪金。。。\n\n他用钱也挺没多少的，有时候还问我要，我一个傻比大学生，一个月 2k，经常月光 :hugging_face_dizzy_face:他有时候说自己进步了，然后我就给他爆金币，大概 20、50 这样子，最近他要改车，动不动就问我要 200，鼠鼠哪有钱，就拒绝了，然后他就一直问我月初能有多少钱，能不能支援他，我。。。他之前过年还想着要我压岁钱，有时候对我很好，有时候感觉把我当韭菜 :thinking_face_clown_face: 之前去广州他问他妈要钱，说是请我出去吃饭，其实每天只吃一顿，然后钱留着改车，买游戏装备\n\n然后我舅最近因为他要高考也急，然后就叫我问他，我也不知道怎么和我舅说，哎。。。\n\n请各位门友给点建议，我应该怎么办","cooked":"

我有一个表弟，我舅舅的孩子。我俩从小就是我外公外婆带大的，我外公外婆也就只有我舅和我妈两个孩子

我和我表弟都是独生子女，我弟上学前班的时候就去广州了，我舅舅家条件挺好的，广州有三套房子吧，基本上都在海珠这种市区

我在小县城长大，我比我表弟大两岁半

然后明年六月份他高考，虽然说他现在在省重点，但是据我舅说我弟那个学校本科升学率只有一半。。。然后我弟他平时也不怎么读书，有在广州生活的门友肯定知道，广州的“小牛”，电摩比较出名，中大珠海校区门口、广州塔下面经常有翘头飙车的

我弟也喜欢整那个，尤其是他还改车，据说他那个小电动车可以破百。。。改那个车可能前前后后花了有 1.5 个 w

钱大概是从我舅妈那里找来的，舅妈比较疼他，但是他偏偏喜欢惹她生气，他也不读书，天天拿个红魔去学校，就吃鸡，暗区突围天天玩，还氪金。。。

他用钱也挺没多少的，有时候还问我要，我一个傻比大学生，一个月 2k，经常月光 $\":hugging_face_dizzy_face:\"$ 他有时候说自己进步了，然后我就给他爆金币，大概 20、50 这样子，最近他要改车，动不动就问我要 200，鼠鼠哪有钱，就拒绝了，然后他就一直问我月初能有多少钱，能不能支援他，我。。。他之前过年还想着要我压岁钱，有时候对我很好，有时候感觉把我当韭菜 $\":thinking_face_clown_face:\"$ 之前去广州他问他妈要钱，说是请我出去吃饭，其实每天只吃一顿，然后钱留着改车，买游戏装备

然后我舅最近因为他要高考也急，然后就叫我问他，我也不知道怎么和我舅说，哎。。。

请各位门友给点建议，我应该怎么办

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听描述来看是本科都难，加上家里溺爱，很难通过外人来点醒了
\n😭但三套房的家庭环境已经比本鼠鼠毕业就向薪资都好了

干脆直说很难救试试，行不通的话收租可能都比大学舒服吧

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😭确实说了不听啊你和他说他说他要考中国人民公安大学

你又说他说他要考广工 $\":thinking_face_clown_face:\"$

我们也不是打消他自信相反我们一直都在鼓励，但是他自己不努力，眼光也高

实在不行就只能他爸妈多努力了 $\":hugging_face_dizzy_face:\"$

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不知道。。。没遇到这样的烦恼。
\n实在不行学个手艺活吧，随便到时候找个 955 闲时收租

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公安大学是很不错的学校

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本账户已完成使命

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公安大学在广东招生分也不低吧 $\":thinking_face_clown_face:\"$

据我所知比很多 211 分都高了

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不只是分的问题，普通人眼里只有分，其实有很多不错的这种特殊学校，毕业分配工作很不错，但是一般人不懂。我能想到的还有中国民航大学

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本账户已完成使命

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还有提前批的定向医师和定向教师

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暨南大学挺好的

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