{"topic":{"id":13728,"title":"什么年纪的爱情是成熟的呢？","slug":"topic","userId":4668,"categoryId":4,"createdAt":"2024-10-20 13:09:16.036598","bumpedAt":"2024-10-21 10:35:17.986916","views":313,"postsCount":12,"highestPostNumber":12,"likeCount":7,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"本哥布林有问题了 😭","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"isPrivate":false,"isMembersOnly":false,"category":{"id":4,"name":"谈笑风生","slug":"general","color":"25AAE2"},"author":{"id":4668,"username":"IO","name":null,"avatarUrl":null},"realAuthor":{"id":4668,"username":"IO","name":null,"avatarUrl":null},"tags":[]},"posts":[{"id":41850,"postNumber":1,"raw":"本哥布林有问题了 :loudly_crying_face:","cooked":"

本哥布林有问题了 😭

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当下

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不止荷尔蒙，还有责任；不止当下，还有未来。

只要满足这两个条件应该就能称得上成熟了吧 $\":mouse_hole:\"$

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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很中肯的回答啊
\n爱情不止荷尔蒙，还有责任

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即使恋爱漂亮
\n或推测过命相
\n但肉眼一双
\n无法一样
\n

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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他很适合用来打发时间
\n人类的一生何其短暂
\n短暂地宛如转眼即逝
\n我知道大家为什么说我笨了
\n因为我喜欢人类，所以我再也不会前往人类的村庄了
\n我暂时留在他身边吧，直到那转眼即逝的日子到来

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谈到这个就想到了马克思和燕妮。人不是成熟才在一起，而是在一起成熟。

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死后

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庞贝古城拥抱的两人（）

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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一个经常看到毛毛细雨的小孩和一个只见过热带倾盆大雨的小孩，对于同一个“雨”字的意义会有不同的理解。一个近视眼的小孩和一个远视眼的小孩对于同一个“床”字也会有着不同的意象。
\n影响不到一句话的真或伪的那些意义上的差别，通常在实际生活中没有什么重要意义，因而被我们忽略掉，结果使得我们认为个人的世界与公共的世界非常相似，这种相似远远超过了实际的情况。
\n也就是说，如果想要拥有某种独特性的体验，从定义和逻辑上来说这样的体验是不可能具有普遍意义，也就不足以形成语言和文字。如果这样的独特性限定在两人，那么形成的最多也只是两个人的语言。
\n因此“成熟的爱情”只有两个结局：（1）无法与外人言说和共同体验的（2）剧本化的表演

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（2）一般是用来形容 nerd 的，当然这和读书多少没有太大关系

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好问题。但我觉得我没机会找到这个问题的答案了，一想到爱情可能带来的结婚、成家、生育、小孩等一连串东西，我就头疼，所以我觉得还是我个人还是一个人过比较好。我估摸着，如果一个人过一个月自己做饭啥的花不了几个钱，爱情可能带来的一连串东西可是要花很多钱，还需要很强的能力去经营他们。我觉得我没这个能力。回到这个问题上来，我觉得成熟的爱情起码要仔细考虑过爱情可能带来的那一连串东西，不然不管多爱对方，爱情也会逐渐消磨掉的。。。

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