{"topic":{"id":1320,"title":"如何看待痴汉？聊聊性问题","slug":"topic","categoryId":11,"createdAt":"2023-10-03 16:00:00","bumpedAt":"2025-06-21 00:21:51.954402","views":1461,"postsCount":18,"highestPostNumber":19,"likeCount":24,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"引言最近在 YouTube 上看了一个最近的 BBC 中文紀錄片：追查「癡漢」——誰在售賣中國日本性侵偷拍影片，看完有不少感想。在这个纪录片里，BBC 记者卧底在东京、广州调查东亚痴汉偷拍产业，发现有中国艺人，虽然人在日本，但建立的几个网站成为从事此类活动者的大本营，他们也因而（自称）日收入 5000-10000 人民币。这三个网站：顶不住、街射、痴汉现在还能正常访问，主要嫌疑人臧新宇、汤卓然在 BBC 记者表明身份质问他的第二…","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"category":{"id":11,"name":"深入交流","slug":"distilled","color":"c01c28"},"author":{"id":1047,"username":"anonymous_coward_old","name":"Anonymous Coward Old","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/43/32/4332638c11248b8ff07033c11de0759a55205facfbec85e14458245a91991faf.avif"},"tags":["sex"]},"posts":[{"id":2960,"postNumber":1,"raw":"## 引言\n最近在 YouTube 上看了一个最近的 BBC 中文紀錄片：追查「癡漢」——誰在售賣中國日本性侵偷拍影片，看完有不少感想。\n\n在这个纪录片里，BBC 记者卧底在东京、广州调查东亚痴汉偷拍产业，发现有中国艺人，虽然人在日本，但建立的几个网站成为从事此类活动者的大本营，他们也因而（自称）日收入 5000-10000 人民币。这三个网站：[spoiler] 顶不住、街射、痴汉 [/spoiler] 现在还能正常访问，主要嫌疑人臧新宇、汤卓然在 BBC 记者表明身份质问他的第二天离开东京，并且**未被绳之以法**。（顺便提一句，BBC 有很多不健康的东西要辩证地看，比如经典的阴间滤镜，但这次的这个卧底调查研究着实让人叫好，很多年没看到有这样做的媒体了，不愧是老牌媒体）\n\n[grid mode=\"tile\"]\n![Screenshot_20230620_194320|690x431, 50%](/uploads/image/ca/b6/cab6c3adc9dfe77e36e1e66618af6c73dc1198203f277c2c292f0c85d5aba67b.avif)\n\n![Screenshot_20230620_201956|690x346, 50%](/uploads/image/4a/f9/4af970ce0d859678ecab309db23e1de4ac0b62b9de1cfd421b11ffb57b2f84d5.avif)\n\n![Screenshot_20230620_202105|690x368, 50%](/uploads/image/b6/01/b6018ebdaba075bbcc45f0ba85dfd054aed8add4c18ea0cdeaf2a9b03cd76b48.avif)\n[/grid]\n\n片中还提到：日本风俗店提供*付费合法体验痴汉*服务。\n\n## 社会与性心理\n相比欧美，此类痴汉行为似乎更在东北亚文化圈的中国、日本流行。我想，这是否和汉语文化圈的所谓“礼教”和现代社会形态的冲突有关。因为，一般认为欧美在性问题上比较随意。\n\n痴汉是不正常的性癖好，但分析其起因，社会应当也起到重要的推动作用。例如，东亚传统观念认为女性应该在各方面保守，而现代女性在内在（心态、家庭地位）和外在（服装、行为）方面都强调自由和人的个人发展。\n\n男女社会心理的无法对齐和沟通困难，以及部分男性，尤其是单身男的性冲动没有合法的规律的释放方式的现实，日积月累，造成了部分男性性心理的扭曲，只有通过痴汉、街射这种方式释放性压力和对女性的怨忿。\n\n> 截取一些纪录片中 BBC 卧底 Ian（I）和“齐叔“（Q）的对话：\n> \n> I： “齐叔”的那些片都是你自己拍的？\n Q：这个我就不能说了，要说的话就是我自己有团队\n I：你现在的团队有多大？\n Q：15 人左右，包括很稳定的十大国内作者。\n Q：为什么我们的电车、地铁、公交系列那么成功呢？\n （他们）天天都要上班，天天都要坐公交、坐地铁\n 他们就喜欢看这些东西\n 他们不喜欢看到这个女孩让人 [spoiler] 插入 [/spoiler]，但他们喜欢看这些地方去意淫\n\n## 浅析非正常性关系的原因\n之前在表白墙还是什么地方有时能看到报道某学校女厕、澡堂偷拍的事情。这跟大学里的男女关系复杂有很大的关系。有一句俗语很形象：旱的旱死涝的涝死。这里不说涝的，单说旱的：\n\n有不少人，在初高中青年发育时期、性心理正在从儿童向成年人快速发展、开始萌生对异性的正常倾慕的时期，往往被家长和老师教育：教其专注于~~学习~~应试并以一句“不可早恋”应付，使得青少年无法正常处理自己的性需求（包括怎样对待异性）。\n\n此种人对于婚姻恋爱一无所知，既对身边“涝死”者心生羡慕，却又难以和异性发展任何正常关系，往往却以“二次元女性”动画或游戏、甚至是 Adult Video 这种不正常（和这类事物诞生前的自然状态相比）的方式虚假地满足性需求，然而这又对其发展正常的性关系造成阻碍，包括但不限于：\n* 对美好的事物的正常的喜爱和意淫造成的自卑交织在一起\n* 对被情色化物品的异常心态，例如：超短裙、JK 制服、水手服、白丝、黑丝、网袜、头饰发饰、甚至是 HongKongDoll 和 FC2 上常见的口罩\n* 对交往女性超出正常程度的要求：例如对于*只是平常关系的异性*的性幻想和反向性幻想（幻想彼对己之性幻想），以至做出超出正常关系限度的事情（例如毫无索求地帮住异性做事并幻想对方会报答自己，这已经打破了平等这一交往基本原则，这种行为有个不好听的词叫 [spoiler] 舔狗 [/spoiler]）。\n\n## 性教育与应试教育\n性教育甚至是关于异性人际交往教育的缺失，和东亚文化圈的“科举取士”、“男尊女卑”有很大的关系。在这种环境下成长的人往往会觉得只要我拼命学习、成绩好，我就可以获得任何想获得的东西（尽管有些东西很合情合理），比如被异性垂青，比如找到好工作、拿高工资。\n\n但现实并非像想象的这样，比如：\n* 虽然成绩好，可能忽视了体育锻炼和艺术熏陶，导致魅力的丧失，从而难以被被异性垂青。\n* 虽然成绩好，但不小心选错了专业，或者是自己根本没有学习兴趣/探索的动力，虽然之前被逼着学习/盲目得学习的阶段成绩好，但后面逐渐丧失了学习/科研兴趣，或是工作后厌恶自己从事的工作\n* 成绩好、选择了热门专业，但天有不测风云，行业突然不景气，丧失了高工资\n\n我觉得从某种意义上来说，在高考/保研等大棒下的 *专心努力追求高成绩* 之行为是**错误**的。不仅仅是因为这样会造成与人交往方面的知识缺失，还会确实很多东西，比如对人生意思的思考，对自我兴趣的发现、对可以毕生从事的行业或追求的目标的思考。\n\n## YouTube 链接\nBBC 中文紀錄片：追查「癡漢」——誰在售賣中國日本性侵偷拍影片\nhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EI38Ekvbfrs","cooked":"

引言

最近在 YouTube 上看了一个最近的 BBC 中文紀錄片：追查「癡漢」——誰在售賣中國日本性侵偷拍影片，看完有不少感想。

在这个纪录片里，BBC 记者卧底在东京、广州调查东亚痴汉偷拍产业，发现有中国艺人，虽然人在日本，但建立的几个网站成为从事此类活动者的大本营，他们也因而（自称）日收入 5000-10000 人民币。这三个网站：顶不住、街射、痴汉现在还能正常访问，主要嫌疑人臧新宇、汤卓然在 BBC 记者表明身份质问他的第二天离开东京，并且未被绳之以法。（顺便提一句，BBC 有很多不健康的东西要辩证地看，比如经典的阴间滤镜，但这次的这个卧底调查研究着实让人叫好，很多年没看到有这样做的媒体了，不愧是老牌媒体）

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片中还提到：日本风俗店提供付费合法体验痴汉服务。

社会与性心理

相比欧美，此类痴汉行为似乎更在东北亚文化圈的中国、日本流行。我想，这是否和汉语文化圈的所谓“礼教”和现代社会形态的冲突有关。因为，一般认为欧美在性问题上比较随意。

痴汉是不正常的性癖好，但分析其起因，社会应当也起到重要的推动作用。例如，东亚传统观念认为女性应该在各方面保守，而现代女性在内在（心态、家庭地位）和外在（服装、行为）方面都强调自由和人的个人发展。

男女社会心理的无法对齐和沟通困难，以及部分男性，尤其是单身男的性冲动没有合法的规律的释放方式的现实，日积月累，造成了部分男性性心理的扭曲，只有通过痴汉、街射这种方式释放性压力和对女性的怨忿。

\n
截取一些纪录片中 BBC 卧底 Ian（I）和“齐叔“（Q）的对话：
\n
I： “齐叔”的那些片都是你自己拍的？
\nQ：这个我就不能说了，要说的话就是我自己有团队
\nI：你现在的团队有多大？
\nQ：15 人左右，包括很稳定的十大国内作者。
\nQ：为什么我们的电车、地铁、公交系列那么成功呢？
\n（他们）天天都要上班，天天都要坐公交、坐地铁
\n他们就喜欢看这些东西
\n他们不喜欢看到这个女孩让人插入，但他们喜欢看这些地方去意淫
\n

浅析非正常性关系的原因

之前在表白墙还是什么地方有时能看到报道某学校女厕、澡堂偷拍的事情。这跟大学里的男女关系复杂有很大的关系。有一句俗语很形象：旱的旱死涝的涝死。这里不说涝的，单说旱的：

有不少人，在初高中青年发育时期、性心理正在从儿童向成年人快速发展、开始萌生对异性的正常倾慕的时期，往往被家长和老师教育：教其专注于学习应试并以一句“不可早恋”应付，使得青少年无法正常处理自己的性需求（包括怎样对待异性）。

此种人对于婚姻恋爱一无所知，既对身边“涝死”者心生羡慕，却又难以和异性发展任何正常关系，往往却以“二次元女性”动画或游戏、甚至是 Adult Video 这种不正常（和这类事物诞生前的自然状态相比）的方式虚假地满足性需求，然而这又对其发展正常的性关系造成阻碍，包括但不限于：

对美好的事物的正常的喜爱和意淫造成的自卑交织在一起
对被情色化物品的异常心态，例如：超短裙、JK 制服、水手服、白丝、黑丝、网袜、头饰发饰、甚至是 HongKongDoll 和 FC2 上常见的口罩
对交往女性超出正常程度的要求：例如对于只是平常关系的异性的性幻想和反向性幻想（幻想彼对己之性幻想），以至做出超出正常关系限度的事情（例如毫无索求地帮住异性做事并幻想对方会报答自己，这已经打破了平等这一交往基本原则，这种行为有个不好听的词叫舔狗）。

性教育与应试教育

性教育甚至是关于异性人际交往教育的缺失，和东亚文化圈的“科举取士”、“男尊女卑”有很大的关系。在这种环境下成长的人往往会觉得只要我拼命学习、成绩好，我就可以获得任何想获得的东西（尽管有些东西很合情合理），比如被异性垂青，比如找到好工作、拿高工资。

但现实并非像想象的这样，比如：

虽然成绩好，可能忽视了体育锻炼和艺术熏陶，导致魅力的丧失，从而难以被被异性垂青。
虽然成绩好，但不小心选错了专业，或者是自己根本没有学习兴趣/探索的动力，虽然之前被逼着学习/盲目得学习的阶段成绩好，但后面逐渐丧失了学习/科研兴趣，或是工作后厌恶自己从事的工作
成绩好、选择了热门专业，但天有不测风云，行业突然不景气，丧失了高工资

我觉得从某种意义上来说，在高考/保研等大棒下的 专心努力追求高成绩 之行为是错误的。不仅仅是因为这样会造成与人交往方面的知识缺失，还会确实很多东西，比如对人生意思的思考，对自我兴趣的发现、对可以毕生从事的行业或追求的目标的思考。

YouTube 链接

BBC 中文紀錄片：追查「癡漢」——誰在售賣中國日本性侵偷拍影片

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顶！国内的性教育十分缺失

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这是什么

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真晦气
\n这个臧新宇天天碰瓷 Noctis
\n他连王子指甲缝里的泥都比不上
\n下地狱吧

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这个封面好诱人啊 🤩

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挂我？？？？ 😇 😇

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社会问题总是那么复杂，看这个让我联想到了川大那个污蔑别人偷拍的研究生。😇

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观影

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有感：

想想曾经的初中、高中的青春年华，非常后悔。

当时当时也有喜欢的人，可是被傻逼“成绩”、“考试”、“班主任”、“我所以为的社会“公序良俗””、“好孩子好学生”所骗，过得压抑无比，该干的事不干 ^[1]，反而天天“学习”，学你妈的逼，学到来傻逼下交，过 incel 生活，找傻逼工作。

[ 我当时 / 未来的我的孩子 ] 就应该在青春年华顺应 [ 天意 / 人的本性 ]，该牵手牵手，该亲热亲热，该结婚结婚。

爱就是滋润心灵的泉水，是奋发向上、攻坚克难的力量。

缺少爱的人狂躁、喜怒无常、没有干事的动力（躺平）、麻木、晚上睡不着觉、行为难以解释（自己也无法解释）、没有责任心。

我想正大光明地看着同龄的女生吃东西、闲逛，而不是只能在影片里看到。 ↩︎
\n

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紫砂了，特别是看恋爱喜剧题材的漫画/番，非常羡慕他们😭😭😭

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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我们高中不禁止早恋，照样一堆单身的。

大学又不是不能找

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你交的脱处率能有多少？

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0.64%

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