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如果人生是达到一定数值就可以获得 happy end 的养成游戏就好了

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焦虑是无法缓解或逃避的，人就是焦虑本身

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逃避是最好的，不思考就不会焦虑

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焦虑来自于对未来的预测。其中的消极部分让我们情绪低落。然而：

对未来的拟合是无法符合现实的
现实的未来是不可抗的

如果能够接受这两点，那么焦虑能够有所缓解。

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为了缓解焦虑，需要拥有不惧怕变化与挑战的自信；为了培养自信，需要做有挑战性的事来说服自己，因此要在生活中引入随机性，如果自己能解决突发状况，也就说明自己无论面对何种不确定性，都能有应对的能力与勇气

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投资自己，提升自身。艺高人胆大，技多不压身。

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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赞同。我从去年身上发生的某事开始，就一直坚持放低期待，在一切落定之前保持“冷眼”看着，直到最终落定。
\n放低期待可以让人更加理性和冷静，而且一直贯彻保守的态度，经常可以在发生突然事件之时能够迅速补救/兜底。

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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但是这样也会带来弊端。我好像很久没有经历发自内心的、从心底直达天灵盖的开心了，感觉情感变淡了。
\n可能快要修仙成功了吧（？）这下太上忘情了 $\":tieba_laugh:\"$

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change,
\n请赐我平静的心，去接受我无法改变的事；
\ncourage to change the things I can,
\n赐我勇气，去改变我能够改变的事；
\nAnd the wisdom to know the difference.
\n并赐我智慧，去分辨这两者的不同。

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这样也很痛苦的。

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底子厚了就不紧张。比如存款 500w 就不怕失业。

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有恃才能无恐
\n你所倚仗之物的生命周期可以与自己的生命长度相匹配吗？

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高中迷茫不知道该干啥了就会去学单词
\n现在迷茫不知道该干啥了就健身看书
\n总有 fallback 到确定性有价值的事情做

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